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Sunday, August 26, 2007


亲爱的女孩们:  




我要告诉你们的话,这些都来自我心。
  
你必须找到除了爱情之外,能够使你用双脚坚强站在大地上的东西。你要找到谋生的方式。现在考虑不晚了。我从来不以为学历有什么重要,天才都不是科班,但,不是科班,连龙套都跑不了。   

你必须把那些浮如飘絮的思绪,渐渐转化为清晰的思路和简单的文字。华丽和漂浮都不易长久。你要知道,给予文字阅读快感是不够的,内容,思想,境界,灵魂,精神和智慧,这些才重要。   

不要多看那些和你一个路数的女作家的文字。不要琐碎,无病呻吟。不要想到什么就写。 不要流于小感伤和小感动。 女孩,我要你相信温暖,美好,信任,尊严,坚强这些老掉牙的字眼。我不要你颓废,空虚,迷茫,糟践自己,伤害别人。 我不要你把自己处理得一团糟。   

节制自己的感情。不是任何人都能要。体验生活,是另外一回事,并不意味着堕落和 放纵。千万不要认同那些伪装的酷和另类。他们是无事可做的人找出来放任自己无事可做 的借口。真正的酷是在内心。你要有强大的内心。要有任凭时间流逝,不会磨折和屈服的信念。   

女孩,好好去爱,去生活。青春如此短暂,不要叹老。偶尔可以停下来休息,但是别蹲下来张望。走了一条路的时候,记得别回头看。   

时不时问问自己,自己在干吗。 伤心和委屈的时候,要嚎啕大哭。哭完洗完脸,拍拍自己的脸,挤出一个微笑给 自己看。不要揉,否则第二天早上会眼睛肿。 给自己一个远大的前程和目标。记得常常仰望天空。记住仰望天空的时候也看看脚下。   

任何时候,任何人问你,有过多少次恋爱,答案是两次。一次是他爱我,我不爱他。一次是我爱他,他不爱我。好的爱情永远在下一次。别给同一个男人两次伤害你的机会。别相信床上的誓言。别看重处女,但保持纯洁。不要为欲望羞耻,好好享受,但绝不忍受男人的侮辱和怠慢。      

不要招惹别人的男人,除非你非常非常爱他,并且,他非常非常值得爱。不要招惹寻找与前女友相似,和他母亲,姐姐相似女人的男人。不要招惹浪子,文艺青年和中年男子。别招惹太清纯的男人。别和没心没肺的人在一起。别把犯*当真爱。一个男人作践自己来取悦你的时候,千万不要因此感动。这个烟头烫在他身上,下一个就可能烫在你身上。      

不要相信在恋爱上用手段的人。分手时不要口出恶言。吸取教训,但不要后悔。后悔没有用。 别干撕照片,烧信,撕日记这样一类三流爱情电视剧中才有人干的事。   

相信爱情。相信好男人还存在,还未婚,还在茫茫人海中寻觅你。千万别说“男人没一个好东西”这样使别人误以为你阅人无数的话。     

爱物质,适当地。永远知道精神更重要。比那些名表,名牌,时装,更加美丽的是你自己。 别瞧不起劳动人民。不要为劳动羞耻。土地不脏,汗味不难闻。尊重那些似乎生活状况不如你的人,因为这样才是尊重自己。永远体恤那些生活在底层的人们。我们,并不特别娇贵。   

被朋友伤害了的时候,别怀疑友情,但提防背叛你的人。原谅,但并不遗忘。做人存几分天真童心,对朋友保持一些侠义之情。   

最后, 要原谅这世界和自己。要告诉自己,你值得拥有最好的一切!

~ { 4:42 PM }
reflections of you and me;


Wednesday, August 22, 2007


ANGRY!


---Will anyone notice If I jus dissapear from this world?---


Feel so Angry yesterday... It's becoz of my chi teacher lo... Well, despite of saying angry, I guess I'm jus sad over wat she did to me...

As I'm the oni one from my class taking CLL, I can't join my CLL classmates for extra lesson wif her. Hence, I asked by her to join the LEP class every tue.
Once, I ended my lesson at 2 but tat extra lesson starts at 2.30... So I went library till 2.30 then proceed to the classroom. I waited for 30 mins but still can't see a single soul. So I called her. Guess wat she said??? "Sorrie, I forgot to inform u tat the lesson was pushed forward to 2-2.30."

Then another time, I waited at the classroom at 2. I had reconfirmed the time wif her earlier... But in the end, still no ppl turns up.. when i called her again, she said,"Oh, the lesson is cancelled. Doesn't anyone inform u?" Hello!!! I dun noe anyone in tat class and neither do they!!! It's u who forget or perhaps dun bother to inform me abt it!!!

Another time, she came into class 30 mins late. she gave us each 1 page of notes then told us to read tat plus the chi novel+textbk for an hour... then she sat down there stoning... Every student in tat class took out their textbook except me, why?, coz no one informed me!, coz SHE informed the rest except ME!!! Hence, for tat pathetic 1hr, I oni got one piece of pathetic paper to read....

Yesterday, I went there again and oni saw her alone. I dun have any idea where the rest have gone...she passed me a test paper and said I have to complete it by today and put into her pigeon-hole after 1 hr ... And she said I have to find some way to get hold of some chi square papers... Then she left.

I really hate her!!! Wat do she mean find ways to get hold of some papers??? She jus meant tat I have to go spend 2 dollars to buy a chi writing pad to write her test!!! Plus the tests consist of many questions each worth 15 marks each, how can she expect me to finish in an hour???
BS told me tat I should pon her nxt lesson... yaya... i wanted too.. I guess even i din attend she wont even notice tat I'm missing... Maybe I wasn't angry, I'm jus sad... sad tat she din really regard me as a student of hers, sad tat I'm a nobody to her...

Jia, wanted to tell u all these yesterday but changed my mind coz u may be busy... Nvm... haiz...

~ { 11:28 PM }
reflections of you and me;


Wednesday, August 08, 2007


遗失的承诺


想了好久,

朋友真的可以说走就走。

并留下毫无痕迹。

说真的,

我渐渐开始认为承诺就好像一种拖累,

一种让你伤心难过的魔咒。

乘经为了一份我珍惜的友情而需下诺言

不过因为天下没有不散的宴席,

所以也渐渐的离开。

只想好好拥有一个真诚的朋友现在;

毫不考虑又打勾勾,不管设么事发生,

都不会丢下任何人,永远是朋友。

在多的考验,我依然相信着那个约定。

输的人是老太婆~不管我在害怕心中的魔咒,

你都会告诉我不要想,不会发生的。。

可是可是一切的一切好像被遗忘忘得一干二净!

就好像遗忘的承诺旧的不去新的就不会来吗?

我常常在疏远时觉得自己好像就像个玩具!

无法安抚的心情累,

本来就很累了

大家都累了

可不可以

老天爷

可不可以就不要玩弄友情

或许已经到了尽头该放手时就该放呢?

我不想再次让任何朋友受到伤害

想哭就大声哭吧

有设么大不了

只是对自己的一种解放

偶尔逃避也是一种解脱


-恨,有时候更容易记住一个人- 放羊的星星

~ { 12:45 AM }
reflections of you and me;


Sunday, August 05, 2007


给你的10句值得深思的话



1)没有一个一百分的另一半,只有五十分的两个人

2)付出真心,才会得到真心,却可能伤得彻底
保持距离,就能保护自己,却也注定永远寂寞

3)通常愿意留下来跟你吵的人,才是真正爱你的人

4)有时候,不是对方不在乎你,而是你把对方看得太重

5)冷漠,有时候并不是无情,只是一种避免被伤害的工具

6)如果我们之前有1000步的距离,你只要跨出第一部,我就会朝你的方向走其余的999步

7)为你难过而快乐的 是敌人
为你快乐而快乐的 是朋友
为你难过而难过的 就是那些该放在心里的人

8)就算是BELIEVE中间,也藏了一个LIE

9)真正的好朋友,并不是在一起有聊不完的话题
而是在一起,就算不说话,也不会感到尴尬

10)朋友就是被你看透了,还能喜欢你的人

~ { 11:57 PM }
reflections of you and me;


Friday, August 03, 2007


Chen's 21st Birthday


My birthday present for Chen... nice ba.. haha.. Its wine lar...


haha... don't u think I'm so creative?! lol, not that I'm flattering myself... :P

Lol... It so long since I got an excuse to slack one day and go out le... Today is really fun! First, me and chen met at abt 11am for K-Lunch... sang quite a few song, but I the most memeorable song will be our "DA HAI"... ha ha, only me and chen knows the significance of tat song...

After tat, we met up wif joyce and aiting. We chatted a while before travelling to Orchard to meet up wif joyce new bf Daniel. He's a really nice guy, out-going kind and mature...(umm...lol..tat's exactly wat joyce like!) It's really so kind of him to treat us all bubble tea plus Sakura Sushi Buffet (eat until veri full..the food was nice!) ... Even though he's the oni guy among the five of us, the atmosphere is not dull at all... All of us have great time chatting and sharing stuff (+idealogy stuff...).... Really feel happy for joyce and hope their relationship will get better and better! :)

Of course, not forgetting abt my best best fren chen, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

~ { 10:29 PM }
reflections of you and me;



心痛


我真的不想谈这一场会让我后悔的爱情。
我不想承认我爱上的是一个错误。
我不想我的初恋只剩下愚蠢跟可笑。
我不知道为什么我曾经这么喜欢他,
宁可看不见他对我所有的欺骗。
我真的好讨厌我这样的自己!
我讨厌这个提不起放不下的自己!
我真的好讨厌我自己!
我明明知道不值得,可是。。。
我的心为什么那么痛?

-江小南《换换爱》

~ { 10:29 PM }
reflections of you and me;